2012年9月18日星期二

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Albert Ellis, was an American psychologist, who in 1955 detriot tigers #35 grey jersey developed Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) once said,


"The best years of your life are the ones in which you decide your problems are your own. You do not blame them on your mother, the ecology, or the president. You realize that you control?your own destiny".

Each of us, at one time or another, have made an excuse about a deadline we missed; work not done; or some other task that fell short of what we promised we would do. Some of us are so good at making excuses that it happens almost automatically or unconsciously as we attempt to avoid any responsibility for why something did not go well.


Maybe we do it because we don't want to get in trouble or we don't want to look bad in front of our co-workers; friends; family; boss or pet. We just don't want anyone to think less about us. I guess it's a part (a misguided part) of our emotional and psychological approach to how we try to defend or protect ourselves. We even go as far as to justify our excuse when we say ?"But I have a good excuse". From my perspective, there is no such thing as a good excuse. All excuses are bad. What an excuse means detriot tigers #35 grey jersey is that for whatever reason, you have made the decision to not step up and take ownership or responsibility for your actions or lack thereof. You are in essence saying ? "It isn't my fault, don't hold me detriot tigers #35 grey jersey accountable". Well, that's just old fashioned "you know what".

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